Hi, I’m Scott Groves
I provide counseling and performance coaching for women and men in Oklahoma, who are struggling to find purpose, define themselves, and want to stop living a life dictated by the past.
A Little About My Education
I hold a Master of Science in Counseling and continue to learn and improve every day. I have a particular interest in Interpersonal Neurobiology, how trauma and stress influence us at a neurological and cellular level, and the dramatic improvement therapy can make.
A Personal Note to You
If you feel like there isn’t really anyone you can talk to about this stuff, I get it. I’ve been there and I continue daily to confront, work on and refine these things in my own life. It’s easy to feel like you’re alone in the struggles, fears, and questions you face. But, I can tell you after having had the tremendous fortune of working with two incredible therapists in my own walk and now, having spoken to countless others as a therapist, you are not alone. In fact, you are in the company of most people.
If you don’t believe that you are not alone, do one of these two things:
Ask your partner or closest friends. We don’t tend to hide very well from the people that love us the most. This thing called intuition is an amazing trait and they know and feel when we are outside of our purpose, such as when we are suffering.
Spend a few days just reading posts on Facebook. Seriously. Don’t respond to anyone, set your emotions aside, and make this an academic approach. Read what people post. How many of them only post the good when you know the truth? How many post nothing but the negative stuff? It won’t take long before you see that a very large number of us are either unhappy, bitter, posers, or pretending we aren’t. Do you think their kids, wife, or husband are really that perfect?
As your therapist, counselor, or whatever label you choose to attach, I will listen. I can relate, I get it, I’ve been there. I didn’t come into this field without an understanding of the crap that life has thrown at you or the choices you’ve made that continue to haunt you.
Take The Next Step
Meeting with a therapist is not easy for anyone. I know that. But, I challenge you to look at the therapeutic process as not being weak or admitting failure, but as the opportunity to fill your personal development toolbox so that you are able to live a life that is by your design.
Contact me and let’s decide if this is for you. I typically return calls between sessions and in the evening. If you’d rather just get started, click the button below.
Tele-therapy is also available which allows you to participate in your sessions from the private space of your choosing.
